Every day we get phone calls and e-mails from both men and women. I see that as a major plus because it's like having a crystal ball that cuts through the haze and offers some very clear insight into how men and women think about each other.
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Just this week something finally occurred to me after fielding literally thousands of calls and e-mails. There is ONE FACTOR that literally every single person who calls or writes shares. It's almost like a common join a free sugar daddy website thread of DNA.
None of them are IN CONTROL of their dating lives.
Instead, it's whomever they are interested in who tends to be in FULL CONTROL.
You see, typically a guy will write me and say something like, "Hey Scot, I got a phone number from a woman but I called her and she was completely non-committal about hanging out sometime. How do I get her to go out with me?"
Or, he may say, "Look Scot, I've got a problem here. I started dating this woman and it was going well. But then she stopped returning calls as quickly as she once did. And lately she has been telling me she's 'super busy' and can't really get together as often. I texted her four or five times yesterday, but she didn't answer."
The women's version tends to be shockingly similar, if for some untold reason the stories themselves more dramatic and entertaining.
"Scot, I really like this guy who is 'legally
